Dear Wannabe Diary,
This isnāt goodbyeā¦ but it is a transformation. Donāt panic, Iām not quitting. If anything, Iām just getting started. My motivation, energy, and consistency have only skyrocketed. If my brain was running at 150% before, itās now officially in overdrive. Sleep? Who needs it when you can spend nights dreaming about blog posts and editing Reels in your subconscious? (Yes, Iāve actually dreamed about writing captions. Help.)
In just a few weeks, Iāve gone from bedrest and endless TV marathons to running on pure passion. And while I thought going viral would be the momentāthose big, game-changing viral Reels that racked up over a million viewsāit turns out, it wasnāt. Instead of feeling euphoric, I feltā¦ meh? Like, cool, people found it funny, but is that it?
No. Itās not.
Because while making people laugh is amazing, and Iāll never stop posting my unfiltered mom chaos, Iāve realized my true purpose isnāt just about humorāitās about helping people in a way that actually makes a difference. And today, I finally figured out how.
The Moment It Clicked
A few days ago, after a routine OB appointment, I stopped at the store. While sitting in my car sipping a vitamin drink (hydration is still a struggle, send help), I noticed an elderly man in an electric wheelchair struggling to get into his car. He managed to slide into his seat, but his wheelchair was still outside, and he was justā¦ sitting there, looking around.
I hesitated. Maybe someoneās coming to help him? But after a minute, I rolled down my window and called out, āDo you need help?ā
He looked up, surprised. āMe? Oh, yes! Please.ā
Long story short, I couldnāt lift the wheelchair myself (hello, pregnancy limitations), but I folded it up for him and asked a passing couple to help lift it into his trunk. The relief and gratitude on his face? That was the feeling Iād been chasing. That deep, fulfilling, make-your-heart-swell kind of joy.
Thatās the kind of impact I want my content to have.
A New Direction
I want my platform to be more than just laughsāI want it to give people real value. I want to share what Iāve learned through my own journey in a way that actually helps others. No, Iām not an āexpertā with fancy degrees, but I have something just as powerful: experience. Real-life, hands-on, been-there-done-that knowledge. Thatās what I want to share.
So, hereās the new plan:
š Weekly Schedule:
1ļøā£ Monday: Wannabe Pregnancy Playbook ā Everything from fertility, infertility, IVF, pregnancy, prenatal checkups, complications, nutrition, fitness, birth prep, postpartum recovery, and breastfeeding prep.
2ļøā£ Tuesday: Wannabe Baby Handbook ā Your newborn and babyhood survival guide: breastfeeding, sleep, milestones, playtime, baby essentials, and those āwhy is my baby doing this?!ā moments.
3ļøā£ Wednesday: Wannabe Toddler Guide ā Parenting toddlers with a focus on development, tantrums, boundaries, learning through play, and managing picky eating.
4ļøā£ Thursday: Mindset Manual ā Personal growth, manifestation, meditation, and rewiring your mindset for a happier, healthier life.
5ļøā£ Friday: Wannabe Funny ā Memes, relatable humor, and sarcastic takes on the chaos of parenthood. Because laughter is the best therapy.
6ļøā£ Saturday: Wannabe Healthy Bites ā Quick, semi-healthy recipes for busy moms, from meal prepping to energy-boosting snacks.
7ļøā£ Sunday: Wannabe Self-Care ā Tips on avoiding burnout, mental health strategies, self-love, and carving out time for yourself.
What This Means for You
āØ My content is evolvingābut the humor, sarcasm, and authenticity stay the same. This isnāt about being a āguru.ā Itās about sharing real-life experiences, whatās worked for me, and creating a space where we can all learn from each other.
āØ Everything I share comes from a place of honesty. Iām not claiming to be an expert. Iām just someone who researches everything and shares what Iāve learned in a way thatās relatable and easy to understand.
āØ This is a two-way street. I donāt just want to talk at youāI want to build a space where we can talk together. Your experiences, insights, and feedback matter. So letās keep the conversation going.
Hereās to the Next Chapter
More learning. More growth. More helping each other. And of course, more laughing at the chaos.
Canāt wait to see where this goes. š